"Algos!!" , "Stats!!"- she is an old hag,
Carrying an out of style pink bag,
That houses a 1870 "Vogue" mag
In whose weight her shoulders sag.
Paati, Oh my dear !
Death beckons you not, dont you fear;
But why the monologue with the weekend near
Oh! Is that a Base-Theorem lullaby I hear ?
Hubby dear awaits you in his car,
And I'd rather go to the coffee-hour,
And dip my hand into the delicious cookie jar
But Ash here would rather go watch gals in a Bar !!
Interrupted by someone's watch beeping a Friday evening 5 O clock, we stood up to go.But alas, my Miss.Destiny has other ideas.Starting 9 : 30 AM tommorow, and I am going to find myself sitting in one of her classes - for an entire quarter !!!!
Hmm !!! Does one good deed deserve another ??
A Short History of Medicine
"Doctor, I have an earache."
2000 BC: "Here, eat this root."
1000 BC: "That root is heathen. Say this prayer."
1850 AD: "That prayer is superstition. Drink this potion."
1940 AD: "That potion is snake oil. Swallow this pill."
1985 AD: "That pill is ineffective. Take this antibiotic."
2000 AD: "That antibiotic is artificial. Here, eat this root."
The perfect match
The two were thrilled to get there. It wasnt a first rush,impetuous thing. I was a part of an ongoing,gradual process of tuning into each other.
Expectations? Well, they knew right from the start that it was an uphill,daunting task.But irrespective of the outcome, they deserved being where they were, and were going to enjoy it while it lasted.
It was two years ago.March 23,2003. India met Australia in the WC finals.Perfect match.Outcome-not favorable. The experience - worth a lifetime. Could India have done any better to win the match?Did they get overwhelmed? Was it because it was the first time for most people in the team? Would it have been a different outcome if they played anyone else?Will India ever get to a WC finals again?Too many questions.No right answers.
Well, you know what they say , it is not the destination.It is the journey.
"Oh.. look at the smile on her face"
"Thats cuteeee"
Now,they are thrilled to see someone so taken with these play things, that they want to take me to toys-R-us !!!(Thats right, when you are the youngest in the workplace, you have to deal with some pampering !!!)
So anywayz,for once, I dont have shitloads of assignments and tests to catch up on, no advisor meetings to worry about.. coz its not just any Friday, Itz the SPRING BREAK !!!!!!!!
Bye Bye Winter 2005 !!!!
Thank God !!! The quarter is over !!!
There is just too much to write about, and I really dont know where to start from.Hmm..playing host @ cincy followed by a whole week away at home in Maryland should do me a world of good - Yup, I am lucky I have an R&R spot in the US - bubble baths,reading up, lazing around in pyjamas, and dining out !!!! I am sooo looking forward !!!
And... hopefully a lot of blogging too!!!
So anyway, last March, was the best time ever.Hmm, those months and months of shopping for dresses,accessories,planning the wedding,those last minute hitches,the relatives, the glare, the cold feet, the high of welcoming a new member into the family, those cards sessions with cousins,the laughter, the fun, the excitement , the tiresomeness,those oldies tips on "doing it" :) .
Yes, thats a very chocolate-and-roses way of looking at life in general.But, Well, the one thing is brought home to me, is the shallowness of it all, and how utterly materialistic and phony the Tam-Bram society is. Yes, its all about who gets invited and who doesnt , its about who has a Merc E class and who doesnt, how many members of your family is in the US, how many stamps your passport has, what is the resolution of your camcorder, who sings at your reception, and how many items the menu had.Its about politics, settling old family scores, creating new ones, an utterly shamless waste of money, that shouts, "Look how well we have done for ourselves".
I mean, its utterly foolish to see a hard working middle class families, where one or both parents earn all their lives, saving up those precious rupees, investing wisely, spending laks and laks of money, inviting some third or fourth cousin from yesteryears you've hardly been in touch with.And the amount of food that gets wasted, the time and energy spent in organising it.. is it even worth it ?
I mean, in the end, marriage is supposed to be about the guy and the girl concerned.In this setup, it is everything BUT that.
So, forgetting the procedure as an external triviality, lets talk about the happy couple.Well, I have seen a whole range of them , from "I ll never see your face again" to "How did I even live without you all these years".And wow, they have been married for a year now !!!Time sure does fly !!!!
Happy First Wedding anniversary... Sis and Jeeju !!!
Hmm.. So now that its March 10.March has a lot of special dates.And, it just struck me, my anniversary isnt too far either.Sometimes I cant wait to post a special to mark this occasion.But again, I am such a bad writer when it comes to writing about myself.So I guess I am gonna wish myself a happy anniversary much before schedule.Blogging Anniversary, I meant , of course !!!
Happy Womens day!!
Yesterday : I look at myself in the mirror after a long time. What ? I mean , I had no illusions about my looks, but they way I look currently really puts dracula to shame.
What followed, was some effort increase my feel-good factor.Wore a kurtha,changed earrings, put on some lipstick, and best of all, wore some bangles !!!!
Now, as it turned out, the clinking of the bangles against the keyboard strangely didnt annoy me yesterday, and the sound infact kept me company in those god-forsaken place called grad lab, and most importantly kept me awake !!!!!
Though I dont possess many aspects of ,or rather what is widely stereotyped as the notion of "Girly", I am inordinately proud and happy being a woman !!! I wish I had more time to worry about my skin-tone or dark circles.. Nevertheless...We women rock !!!! HAPPY WOMENS DAY !!!
I dont know if I should feel relieved, or happy.I guess I have reached a point where it doesnt matter anymore.I dont care.
Ha!! back to work.
Happy Birthday Yahoo !!!!
Life would have been much different without my 7-year old mail account, or the indispensable messenger,my photo album, or the thousand groups I subscribe to.Thanks Yahoo!!!!!(And oh, for sponsoring Cyberfiesta 2004 too!!!)
When you are expected to work 25 hours a day, there is little you think about other than sleep and food.I'd be lucky if I am alive by the end of next week.These days,contact with the outside world is limited to those rare calls, usually averaging less than two minutes,sorta like sending beacon signals.(What ??)Or to schedule wake-up calls.I am getting back, to my life of simulations and coding now. Ever wonder why UNIX has a header called curses.h ?